Weren’t you the one who instructed her not to contact you? It sounds like she is respecting a boundary you set. That would mean the ball is in your court to restart contact with her. I know if one of my friends told me “don’t call” then I wouldn’t until they gave me the all clear. Unspoken expectations (like “call me after I told you not to”) are premeditated resentments. You’ve set up a no-win scenario for her. I dislike Trump as much as you do but this situation doesn’t sound like his fault.