Men in the comments pretending to be “confused” about “what they’re supposed to do” are just gaslighting us. They know the difference between seeing and staring. They know staring is rude. They know their stares make women uncomfortable and they know that’s exactly why they’re staring. They are angry that you’re calling them out on it, and childishly reacting with “What, am I supposed to close my eyes and walk into a pole? Waah!”