I’m glad you called out this man’s emotional abuse and toxic parenting. “Wits End” is dancing as fast as she possibly can and all she is getting from him is blame, vitriol, and indifference. Where is his empathy for her and for his own children? He may indeed have been raised in an emotionally unhealthy environment but while that’s not his fault, it is 100% his responsibility now to address his own emotional shortcomings. I certainly hope he’s had a vasectomy.