He said “It’s better to look good than to feel good, daahling” (in addition to “Jyoo look mahvelous!”) That tiny detail aside, what you’re saying here is so important. Aging should be considered a success not a failure. The expectation that women don’t age, or that we go through tortuous, expensive or repetitive procedures to hide signs of natural aging, or that we dress or adorn ourselves in prescribed ways (don’t dress like an Old but avoid dressing young! Be stylish but never trendy! No long hair for you!), is absurd.

I don’t cover my grays because I have I earned them fair and square.