Did we even read the same article? At no point does this article say men have “too much self respect.” It doesn’t even imply that. It also doesn’t use lack of relationships as the sole metric for determining merit. The article is so well written that in order to try to argue against it you had to make things up. every single point you’re arguing against came from you, not the author, so you may as well go in the bathroom and argue with yourself in the mirror.