Couldn’t men just spare us their constant commentary on our bodies? Women don’t owe anyone a specific body type. Note how rarely we see women pontificating on what body shape men should strive for in order for us to find them suitably fuckable —oh oops excuse me “desirable.” It’s demeaning and no, gratitude is not in order when men blather about how they “actually prefer curves.”

Feminism is the radical notion that women are people. —Marie Shear